Dame is your Domestic Assistant for Managing Everything, created by a forgetful dad who never checked the synced calendar. To-do lists here, notes in another place, grocery lists somewhere else. Juggling many apps and services meant things constantly slipped through the cracks. He needed a system he'd actually use, so he built one

One of you carries the household in your head - remembering, reminding, tracking. The other means well but can't keep up. So when things get lost along the way, they feel genuinely guilty and the other one dislikes nagging but feels compelled to. The mental load is heavy on both sides

Dame started with one idea: everything in one place. One app for ten things, instead of ten apps for ten things. Everything your family needs to stay coordinated

But solving that creates a new problem. With everything in one place, it piles up fast, and a long list brings its own kind of overwhelm. A lot of time was spent researching how our brains actually handle responsibilities - decision fatigue, cognitive load, what makes tasks feel manageable versus overwhelming. The results are built into how Dame sorts your day so you don't have to decide what's next

Your responsibilities are coordinated automatically, showing you what matters now, in order. If you've ever opened a to-do app and felt paralyzed by the chaotic order of items, this one's for you. Open the app, work top to bottom. Zero decision fatigue

And the last part: everyone on the same page. Roughly 70% of households have one primary organizer. Dame ensures it actually reaches the other side. Changes show up instantly for the whole home, and you choose who sees what, from the whole household down to just you. Less friction. More free time. A more cohesive, happy household that can actually breathe

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What everything in one place means:

- Built in household chat, fully encrypted end to end. A spot for 'running late' and 'grabbing dinner' messages. Create additional group chats and direct 1:1 messages between members

- Recurring tasks. Set it once, weekly or every third Tuesday, and Dame remembers so you don't have to. Optionally add subtasks per task for even greater organization, and you can set reminders about a task when you arrive at a location

- Chores system with Fair Shares, one of Dame's standout features. Set higher shares for certain members so they get more frequent turns. Useful for when kids are responsible for taking out the trash most of the time, but dad doesn't mind helping out on occasion

- Notes & lists. Notes are your scratch pad, lists speed up your multi-store expeditions. Your partner adds milk and it shows up on your shared list in real time. Organize groceries by store, aisle or category, with a dedicated Shopping Mode that makes the experience even more trivial

- Saved items. Your co-worker mentions a great restaurant they tried over the weekend. Instead of forgetting the name, you add it to Dame's Saved section and you're a hero on the next date night. Save also works for places to go, plus movies and shows to watch

- Recipe simplifier, a Dame specialty feature. Skip past the backstory of great, great auntie and the history behind the recipe. Sometimes you just want clean steps - organized by pre-prep (turn on oven, boil water), actual prep and cooking. A dedicated cooking mode shows a larger interface for each step, complete with timers, making cooking a mostly hands-free experience

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No ads, no data selling, no creepy profiling. Dame is paid for by subscriptions, not by harvesting your family's information

The full app experience is free to try for 14 days. After that, pick the plan that fits your household